Sunday, June 14, 2026

Making a Difference: Teachers, the epitome of making differences

Making a Difference: Teachers, the epitome of making differences
June 13, 2026


Teachers are the quintessential epitome of making a difference in the lives of their students. Everyone interviewed and asked about teachers would be able to name at least one, and maybe two or more, who made a difference in their lives.

Many of us can probably name all our grade school teachers without having to think much about it. For me, that’s an easy one: Mrs. Williams, Mrs. Poole, Miss Bowman, Mrs. Jeppsen, Mrs. Parks, and the sixth-grade combination of Mrs. Eames, Mrs. Frew and Mr. Baldwin at Menan Elementary.

Through interview surveys with several teachers from a variety of schools, I gained a deeper understanding of why and how teachers truly make a difference in the lives of so many.

Take Stacy Pugh, an award-winning fifth-grade teacher in Cache County who has been teaching in a formal education setting for 17 years. She also provides civic education professional development to other Utah educators through Utah Valley University. She grew up in a home where education was valued.

“Although my mother never completed a college degree, she consistently worked hard to learn about a wealth of subjects and encouraged us to do the same,” explained Stacy. “As a result, I love learning and teaching others. I always wanted to be a teacher and would play ‘school’ with my siblings when I was young. When I married and started having children, I formed a preschool with other mothers in the neighborhood. I also have encouraged my six children to learn something new each day just as my mother encouraged me to do. I have a son with an auditory processing disorder and that inspired me to want to help others in a more formal setting.”

One of my own ninth-grade English students, Amber English, currently teaches sixth grade at Taft Elementary in Lincoln City, Oregon.

“I don’t think becoming a teacher was a conscious decision or something I sought. I just AM a teacher. I have tried over the years to get away for a variety of reasons and in different circumstances and I simply cannot NOT teach. Knowing I am literally shaping the future of this planet’s citizens is no small honor, and I am really grateful to get such an important role,” English said.

Shelby Urban from American Fork has been teaching for three years — two years as a grades K-9 PE teacher and the last year as a PE, health and nutrition teacher at Salt Lake Academy High School. For Shelby, she just wanted to teach PE because she loved exercising, playing sports and staying active. But after studying the subject, she changed her thought process.

“I ultimately wanted to change the narrative in PE, especially girls PE, away from fearing calories and needing to be skinny to being strong and powerful. I adore the opportunity to be a mentor in students’ lives. I love teaching them to enjoy physical activity and understand the importance of staying healthy. Also, I recognized that teaching PE is one of the only ways I could keep playing/running sports games in my adulthood,” Urban said.

Emily Kennedy has lived in Utah County most of her life. She has been in education for 10 years and just finished her third-year teaching special education at the Dan W. Peterson School in American Fork. She didn’t expect to become a teacher, but at one point she lost her job and became a substitute teacher until she could figure out her next steps.

“As I substituted, I found a school and environment I wanted to be in all the time. Initially, I was hired as a paraeducator, and then my amazing boss took a chance on me and hired me to be a teacher,” Kennedy said.

Megan Beddes grew up in St. George but later followed her husband to the University of Wyoming. She currently lives in Omaha, Nebraska, where her husband just graduated from the Creighton School of Dentistry. She currently teaches sixth-grade math at Gretna Middle School outside of Omaha and just finished her fourth year in education. For Megan, teaching was always something she felt drawn to because of the examples around her.

“I was inspired by my mom, who loved working in education, and by my college professors who brought so much enthusiasm to their subjects. Their passion made a lasting impression on me,” she said.

A teacher for the past 29 years, Sue-Ellen Tomlinson lives in Idaho Falls, Idaho, has been married for almost 29 years and is the mother of four children. She currently teaches 11th- and 12th-grade forensic science, 10th-grade biology and 7th-grade health at Ririe Junior-Senior High School in Ririe, Idaho. She has also taught 11th and 12th grade anatomy and physiology, high school health, ecology, environmental science and career exploration. She decided to become a teacher for a few different reasons.

“One was some of the teachers that I had were inspiring. Another is that I love learning and want to share that with others. A third reason is that I love the aha moments that come with learning,” Tomlinson said.

Making a difference in teaching is commonplace in teachers’ lives. For Emily Kennedy, she had a student in her class who came with intense aggressive behaviors and psychological trauma.

“By the time her family moved and she left my class, she was a calm, happy teenager, and we hadn’t had a single incident of aggression all year. I know I was only part of that equation, and her family and care team outside of school worked really hard to get her to that place. She was a different person at the end of that two and a half years. It was incredible to watch. I am so proud of her,” Kennedy said.

Shelby Urban has had several experiences where girls opened up to her about difficulties in their life.

“Often, they just need to vent or seek advice,” she explained. “It’s those times that I feel like I’m making a difference for students. Many don’t have adults at home they can trust, so it’s a privilege to help them when they need it.”

During Megan Beddes’s first year of teaching, she worked with a group of students known throughout the district for having significant behavioral challenges. For her, it required much patience and consistency to build trust with them, and she spent a great deal of time supporting a few specific students who needed extra attention and encouragement.

“It took nearly the entire year to build a fragile relationship with these students,” Beddes explained. “I left my first year of teaching feeling drained and a bit defeated. Over the next two years, though, those students returned to visit me while they were in seventh and eighth grade. They shared their math test scores, what books they were reading, and how their weekends were. To this day, my most challenging student will still come and visit me when he has a day off from the high school. It was very rewarding to see that I had made an impact on these students and that all my effort was worth it in the long run.”

Sue-Ellen Tomlinson said making a difference can happen in so many different ways.

“I think the thing that has made me feel like I’ve made a difference was when I was teaching at the adult male prison and I had a parent approach me at graduation and tell me that she had been waiting for years for this moment when her son graduated,” Tomlinson said.

High school anatomy and physiology class certifying in basic life
support and first aid, compliments of Sue Ellen Tomlinson

Stacy Pugh wrote that she seldom knows exactly what impact she makes in the lives of her students, although she hopes it is a positive one.

“I have had students write me later to share how grateful they were for my support and encouragement,” she said. “It has been rewarding to help students through divorce situations, cancer, learning disabilities, anxiety issues, loss of a parent and many more situations. I also cheered them on when they finally understood a concept they struggled with. In all cases, having someone who cared meant more than secular gains. Teachers often do make a difference, and I enjoy being a part of that. Currently, I teach with one of my former students. It is a joy to have her as a coworker and see that she loves her students just as I did and still do.”

Many teachers feel that much of their transition to teaching came from having amazing teachers and mentors throughout their lives.

“I had so many amazing teachers throughout my life,” Kennedy said. “They always believed in me and saw my potential, even when I couldn’t, especially Mrs. Snow, my high school chemistry teacher. I am also very grateful to the mentors and teachers that I work with now who have continued to see the best in me. I would not be here today without each and every one of them.”

Shelby Urban’s push came from a college professor who was the most intimidating person she had ever met in her life.

“She was incredibly strict. She even made us do pushups if we were late to class!” Urban said. “At the end of the semester, I had incredible respect for her and had learned more than any other class. She pushed me and taught me that sometimes being nice isn’t what students need. It’s a push to help them reach their potential.”

Sue-Ellen Tomlinson’s biggest inspiration in her life was Shirley Hunter, her health occupations teacher at Bonneville High School. She helped Tomlinson to love learning about healthcare professions and learning how to help others. Her goal was to become a teacher like Mrs. Hunter.

All of us can remember what good teachers have done in our lives and in the lives of our siblings and children and can align with what Stacy Pugh said: “I’ve gained an appreciation for those teachers who cared for my children as if they were their own and those teachers who pushed my children to reach their potential, even when that was hard. I think most teachers are in it to make the world a better place.”

Amber English said, “I’m sure I have never expressed my gratitude to you for being there for me when I needed someone to see and hear me. Thank you. When anyone is ever reminiscing about teachers they feel mattered to their life, your face is always one that comes to mind.”

If you had a teacher who made a difference in your life, please reach out and thank them!

*You can also find the article here:

https://www.heraldextra.com/news/community/2026/jun/12/making-a-difference-teachers-the-epitome-of-making-differences/

Friday, February 13, 2026

20 things you should be doing for your Valentine on a daily basis!

For this Valentine's Day, I know that many of you are scrambling to find the right Valentine's Day gift--maybe flowers, a beautiful card, clothes, a new car, perhaps even new shutters for your house. One of the gifts you could give to your Valentine is doing just simple things every day, not just on Valentine's Day. In fact, Valentine's Day can be a daily occurrence. 

Valentine hearts 

This year why not commit to 20 things you should be doing for your Valentine every single day!

Life is full of lists we need to do, from shopping to what to buy to homework assignments. No list is more important for men than the 20 things you should be doing for your true Valentine on a daily basis. Once you figure that out, you may be home free.

#1: Tell her you love her—You must tell her you love her more than once per day, including when you leave and when you come home. Because texting is so popular, you can even text her although telling her face-to-face is the most important and intimate.

#2: Show her you love her—Of all of the things you need to do every single day is this one: Show her you love her. You can tell her all you want, but showing her is the sauna of everyday living. Show not telling is the writer’s mantra and should be a husband’s. Thousands of ways exist on how to show your wife you love her. Be creative. Every. Single. Day.

#3: Pick up after yourself—Nothing is less sexy or even unsanitary than heaps of clothes, shoes, socks, candy wrappers, etc. lying everywhere. Surely you can spend the few minutes to put away your shoes, place your socks in the dirty clothes, or even hang up your pants. It’s just plain laziness to just flop stuff on the floor or pile a zillion T-shirts on the chair next to your bed.

 #4: Clean around your sink—Yuck! One of the most unsanitary places in America today, aside from your computer keyboard, is your sink. Clean it every day and reach over and clean your spouse’s. She will be pleasantly surprised and grateful. Promise!

 #5: Iron your own clothes—Perhaps, all of your clothes are the no iron kind. Congrats! But there are some husbands whose dress shirts need to be iron, pants to be touched up, or even suit jackets to be steamed. Try doing it yourself. You would be surprised how relaxing—and even therapeutic—it really is.

#6: Write a note—This could be the easiest one you do. Your note doesn’t have to be on the cutest paper in the world. You could easily write on any piece of paper, including toilet paper, and put it in her pocket or out where she can see it. You could even put a sticky note on the mirror in the bathroom.

#7: Make the bed—Or at least help make the bed. It’s always easier when two make the bed, and it takes just a few moments of your time. There is just something about completeness when the bed is made.

#8: Don’t complain—Surely, you can refrain from complaining once per day. Make it twice tomorrow. Complaining is a sign of morbid pessimism.

#9: Read to her—Now, you may not be a reader, but reading to her something every day shows a bit savvy about things. It could be one of the comics from the daily paper, a scripture or two, or an incredible passage from the novel you are reading.

 #10: Brush your teeth—Okay, this one should be done more than once per day, but brushing your teeth the moment you get up and then after you breakfast will definitely reap benefits. Freshness is always the key to happiness.

 #11: Don't ask about what needs to be done—Having to ask definitely shows you are non-observant and not dialed in to what is happening around your house. She probably has hinted and maybe even come right out and said, “Dear, would you do this?” Be observant; look around; listen to her.

 #12: Put the dishes in the dish washer—Mega-easy task! Climb off your stool/chair, grab your utensils and cereal bowl, and walk the three feet to the dish washer. There is no reason to leave them in the sink or on the table.

 #13: Pull in the garage straight—Garage space is sacred space; so, make sure you pull in straight and on your own side. Encroaching on her spot is not cool. If her car is outside, go ahead and put hers away, too. It’s one of those showing-you-love-her things.

#14: Take care of the garbage—It’s always your turn to take out the garbage. No questions asked.  

#15: Lock the doors and turn out the lights—At night, walk around the house, lock the doors, and turn out the lights. Your spouse will feel much safer if you have done due diligence.

#16: Give her a hug or two—This is a no-brainer. Hugs in the morning. Hugs when you come home. Hugs when you go to bed. Make sure they aren’t just a mere squeeze. Give her bear hugs.

#17: Complement her how nice she looks—Complimenting your lovely bride once a day—or even more would be a good thing—reaps huge benefits.

#18: Help with the dishes without being asked—This one is different than putting your dishes into the dish washer. If you or your spouse cooks, which they normally do, jump right in and help with the dishes, either washing or drying.

#19: Make one of the meals—What? Make one of the meals? That may mean you have to learn how to cook something, learn how to heat up leftovers, or even create a salad. You will be totally surprised how she reacts if you arrive home first and have a delicious meal prepared for her.

#20: Have an incredible conversation each day—In today’s society with all the technology, streaming video, long work days, too many distractions, etc., we seldom have time for real conversation. Your marriage and your relationship with your wife will endure even longer and become stronger when you take the time to have an incredible conversation with her. It’s almost a reconnection each day.

Memorize the list, add to it, and, oh, and always remember two important words: “Yes, Dear.”

Happy Valentine's Day!

*From https://www.eastidahonews.com/2015/06/20-things-wife-every-day/

Monday, February 9, 2026

Louise ZoBell: Miracles and Shining Moments

Louise ZoBell: Miracles and Shining Moments

Louise at the 2024 Gala

With a heavy heart, I pay tribute to my eternal friend and colleague, Louise ZoBell who passed away following hip surgery in her beloved Dominican Republic!

I met Louise over the phone in 2012 when Joanne and I were serving as Welfare Specialists in the Caribbean Area Welfare Office for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She had a request to help one of her friends to obtain a prosthetic leg, which happened through the Church's humanitarian program. That was the beginning a wonderful friendship over the past 14 years.


I discovered quickly that Louise is a goer, an influencer, someone constantly in motion, and a friend to all! Once she puts her mind to something, she does not let up until it is done. Perhaps, more importantly, Louise is an inspirational leader who constantly exudes humility and gratitude for everyone who has helped the Dominican Starfish Foundation.

Anyone who has been around her knows that she gushes thankfulness and gratefulness for many, many things. Both her humility and boldness are in her DNA. Her wonderful boldness was effusive and heartwarming simultaneously.

People flocked to her, and she flocked to people. It seemed like a melodic and harmonious dance all the time with her and her desire to make the Dominican Starfish Foundation an organization encompassing and inclusive. We all had to hustle to even keep up with her.

Amarilis and Louise

I know that thousands and thousands of people from all over the world, particularly her Dominican friends who she loved dearly and served effortlessly, are mourning her death here on earth, and thousands and thousands of others are clapping for joy because of her arrival on the other side.

Her vision was forthright and comprehensive! She once said: “As more get involved with our vision, the little grass-roots foundation we started from our home in Stirling, Alberta, Canada, will make an amazing difference, one family at a time, one community at a time, and more.”


And that’s exactly what she did: made a difference, one individual, one family, and one community at a time, binding and connecting hearts, minds, and souls.

As she said to me many years ago, ““I am thankful to be the hands of the Lord in this project….I am thankful that I have the drive to continue. I am so thankful for those who have donated…. I am so grateful for all these people who have shared our dream and mission.”

Louise, we are eternally grateful to you for allowing us to participate in some way to help you with your dream and mission.

Louise, Joanne, and Darrel at the Gala

May we all continue to remember Louise’s goodness, kindness, love, compassion, sweetness, and hundreds of other descriptors of a woman destined for eternity with her Heavenly Father and Mother.

We love you, Louise!

Sunrise in Puerto Plata