Perseverance: A Key Leadership
Quality
Last summer, I spent nine days with a group of young people in the
Dominican Republic, ranging from 15-years-old to 21-years-old who were
participating in a summer education camp. My role was to introduce them to
leadership principles and values. One of the leadership attributes I focused on
during my leadership training with the Dominican young people was perseverance,
an attribute that is missing in many of the lives of our young people—and even
older, mature people.
Perseverance is really the ability to just keep on going when things
get really tough. (Also see Webster’s definition at http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/perseverance).
Or like I usually say: “Just do the do, no matter what!”
I have noticed over the years that this attribute is missing in many
people. Why? Learning how to persevere and actually persevering through a
project is a challenging and sometimes daunting task. It takes a ton of effort.
Just ask Madame Curie, Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell, and Andy Andrikopoulos.
Most of us know who the first three are, but probably most people don’t know Andy
Andrikopoulos.
I first met Andy when I served as President of Laramie County CommunityCollege. During the first few months on the job, Andy and his beautiful and
ever gracious wife Barbara invited me over to their home. They just wanted to
visit and become acquainted. They were incredibly nice to me. At the end of the
conversation, Andy said, “Call me if you need anything.” Now, there are people who just say that
phrase in passing, and there are people who truly mean that. I learned that
Andy’s words are not merely words; rather, they are what he is.
By most standards, Andy is extremely successful. He has been the owner
and operator of A.G. Andrikopoulos Oil and Gas Properties since 1960. His
company has oil and gas assets in almost 20 states. Plus, he and his wife give
much of themselves and their resources to their community. But he wasn’t always
successful.
I learned that when Andy was a senior in high school, his principal
told him he wasn’t college material and not to waste his time by going. Andy
didn’t listen to the principal because he had already decided he wanted to go
to college, and he knew he would do whatever he decided to do, including
graduating from college.
So, when fall came around, he went to the University of Wyoming and
ultimately earned a bachelor’s degree in business. It wasn’t easy because in
those days, there was very little financial assistance for average students like
Andy. But he put his hand to the educational plow, trudged forward, worked
hard, never gave up, and ultimately graduated.
After graduation, he decided to pursue an interest in the oil and gas
industry–not exactly the kind of industry that seemed a sure bet. And the way
the story goes—and this is where all of us should take good notes—Andy had had
an economic interest in some 770 wells that never produced. Think about that:
Andy drilled 770 wells without even a drop of oil or gas. Disappointing.
Disheartening. Disconcerting.
Now, I suspect, that many of us would have become discouraged and quit
after drilling a dozen or so. Maybe even a 100 and walked away, our heads down,
thinking that we were failures. But not Andy. He kept going and finally hit a
producing well–#771. Within a couple of
years, he was able to develop 75 producing wells.
For Andy, it just took perseverance and remarkable determination. He
didn’t give up, no matter what the obstacles were. In his case, the obstacle
was nothing: nothing in the wells. For some of us, the obstacles in our lives almost
seem insurmountable. Amazingly, we have the ability to overcome obstacles,
sometimes with a little—and maybe even a lot of—help from our families,
friends, colleagues, and our own mindset of perseverance.
The key to perseverance can be
taken from the Andrikoloplos’ well story. Our wells should never run dry
because we as leaders are continuously filling them up with our history of
doing, our determination and perseverance, and our diligence to just do the do.
Simultaneously, we need to be filling our wells with our continuous giving of ourselves;
our willingness to help others; and our financial, spiritual, moral, and
emotional giving to those who need it.
Neal A. Maxwell, a renowned educator and Church leader, once wrote in
his book Of One Heart: “Sometimes we
draw the things of the world so close in our line of vision, we obstruct our
view of the bigger picture.”
Being persistent doesn’t allow us to lose sight of the big picture, no
matter what those obstacles—large or small—may be. Granted, we may be
disappointed with our progress, but our determined perseverance will push us on
to the victory.
Con mucho esfuerzo y ayuda leí un par de veces este artículo que me pareció muy interesante, de solo ver el tema, ya que muchas veces he pensado que cuando uno flaquea ante la prueba, no está perseverando. En fin suelo ser una persona que me exijo mucho.
ReplyDeletePero yendo a este tema, es verdad que, tanto jóvenes, adultos y viejos se dan por vencidos muy rápido, para sentarse a esperar la solución.
Admirable el relato de Andy, que ante todo perseveró aún cuando muchos, tal vez no creían en su capacidad, incluyendo el Director de su escuela, sin embargo el tenía en su mente lo que deseaba lograr no importando el tiempo, ni sacrificios que le costaría o si llegaría último en su propósito. Creo que muchas veces dejamos de perseverar cuando no se confía en en nosotros, pero con este relato me confirma que uno debe seguir adelante aún que sea solo.
Perseverar es una palabra que se escucha a diario, hacerla parte de nuestra vida es algo complicado pero no imposible.
En mi vida he aprendido de fuertes experiencias que de no perseverar en estos momentos no estaría gozando de las bendiciones que tengo en mi vida.
Recuerdo que cuando vino a mi mente el deseo de ir a una misión por un año y medio, tuve mucha oposición, incluso hasta yo dudaba de lo que estaba sintiendo y pensaba si lo lograría, pues algunas personas no aseguraban que no lo haría.
A pesar de eso oré mucho para que tan solo ese deseo que había venido a mi mente no se diluyera, fue así que pese a todo pronóstico cumplí con los deseos de mi corazón servir a Dios. Ese tiempo de sentirme tan cerca de Dios permitió
que aprendiera la forma de como enfrentar las dificultades. Debo decir que durante el tiempo de mi misión no tuve el apoyo que me ofrecieron y lo mas duro, tal vez, fue no sentir el apoyo de parte de mi familia.
Me da mucho sentido " Llámame si necesitas algo" en estos tiempos es difícil encontrar personas que de verdad están dispuestas a dar al que le necesite, pero he tenido experiencias de conocer personas que si están cuando uno les solicita.
Hubiese deseado hacer mi comentario en el idioma esperado, es la primera vez que me atrevo hacer esto, ya que como dije en un momento el tema me llamó mucho mi atención. Gracias espero ser tan perseverante como Andy.